Saturday, May 11, 2013

Cat Pee and Other Cat Concerns

Some of you know that we had a pet emergency this week. Boycat started peeing blood on Thursday and the vet (whom we had never needed to see here in Philly, at least not yet) was kind enough to rush us right in.

The official diagnosis was Feline Idiopathic Cystitis, but lab tests showed multiple bacteria present as well, so he's on an antibiotic, a painkiller and because the problem appears to have been exacerbated by the noises of the ongoing construction (building-wide window replacement) taking place, an anti-anxiety pill for humans (and cats) called Buspar (buspirone).

I filled his Buspar prescription at Walgreen's. His bottle has his first and
last name, plus "The Cat." Cute.  :-) 
The painkillers are some tasty flavored chewable pills and he begs for those when I open the package.

He ate his antibiotic wrapped in turkey the first day, but apparently he's wise to us now. I got a Buspar down him using tuna and tuna water to disguise it, but we could not get him to take his antibiotic in food yesterday and had to resort to cat-pilling. Ugh. Such unpleasant (but very necessary) business. And since he's now attuned to the possible presence of pills in tuna, turkey, etc., it looks like we'll be doing it three times a day for a couple weeks. One of several videos I found helpful is below.



I just hope he starts feeling better soon. He was still peeing a bit of blood yesterday, and peeing only tiny amounts in spite of all the wet food, tuna water and bottled water he's been consuming. I never saw him lick his whizzer even once when he was healthy, but he's doing it all the time now, apparently 'cause it's in such pain. He's also leaving little pee spritzes in assorted non-appropriate locations around the house. (He never pee'd outside his box before, which would have been a sure sign of something wrong even without the bloody pee.)

Human friends, have you ever had cystitis/bladder infection/UTI? I remember being pretty miserable with it. You want to jump out of your skin, which is probably what Boycat has been feeling the last couple of days.

That being said, we have a list of household goods and clothing casualties that continues to grow. He pee'd on two pairs of my suede boots, both of which are probably not salvageable. Even if the bloody pee stains come out, the aroma probably will not. I do not want to be the person who causes everyone to ask, "Do you smell cat pee?" when I walk by in a pair of these boots. He also pee'd on (and in) my rainboots, so they're goners, as well as a pair of Mr. 42's flip-flops. A couple shirts and an afghan also got hit and will be taking a turn through the washer in the near future. I have newspapers down at the particular spot on the carpet that he's taken to spritzing. The smell of cat pee in our small apartment is pretty unpleasant and we're probably not done with the sprayings yet.  Nature's Miracle is on its way from Amazon.com as we speak.

To avoid future recurrences, the vet recommend we transition him to an all wet-food diet, so we're going to transition both cats at the same time. They already get periodic wet food as a treat and they like it, but both are very attached to their fancy-pants grain-free dry cat food. (Which I had just bought a big bag of, too. Damn the luck.)

On a brighter note, our new window installation was completed yesterday (hooray!) so Boycat's immediate perceived threats from strange noises and strange people are greatly diminished. He and Girlcat LOVE sitting in the new windows. We love the windows, too, since the old ones were almost completely rotten and we had to put plastic up in the winter due to the drafts. Plus they open all the way up, which is helping with the cat pee smell.


Bonus shot of Girlcat, just 'cause she's so pretty and hardly ever sits still for pictures:



Sunday, April 21, 2013

My Favorite Things: The Tek Bracelet



This is my most-worn piece of jewelry after my wedding ring, which makes it one of My Favorite Things. I call it the Tek Bracelet.

"Tek" is short for Tekla, and Tekla was Tekla Allen, a family friend since I was a child. She was always called Tek for as long as I knew her, which I found strange as a child, though I found the fact that it was a nickname for "Tekla" even stranger. Tekla was one of those names like Opal and Edna and Ethel that children of the 1970s would encounter only on grandmothers and great aunts.

Tek is from the small town where I grew up, and she was an amazing woman. She married well, to a local pharmacist who also owned his drugstore which, incredibly, still had an operating lunch counter through the early 1980s. (I assure you it was quaint even back then.) They had a nice 1950s-era ranch home filled with original mid-century modern furnishings. Antiques at that time still trended toward the Victorian and the Depression eras. The nice Danish modern stuff Tek had was considered too recent and unfashionable in the late 1970s when she became a widow and sold the house and much of its furnishings to move into a senior apartment complex. I'm sure a lot of it went for a steal and oh, how people including my parents would pay through the nose for that stuff today!

I met Tek when she was still incredibly spry for a woman in her 60s--one whose mother was still alive, living independently in her late 80s and almost equally spry. Tek still dressed to the nines, wearing little heels and stockings, with scores of handbags and incredible jewelry. Lots of chunky bracelets, big bead strands and pendants and fancy clip-on earrings. I saw pictures of Tek from the 1950s, doing upper-middle-class housewife-ly things like shopping downtown and attending charity social events. She was always wearing fox pieces, little hats and white gloves.  Style was important to her and seemed to come naturally to her.

She gave birth to one son who was also a friend of my parents (and much closer to their age), which is how we all met Tek. The son died young--at just 42--of MS, but Tek was such a neat lady that her daughter-in-law would continue to take care of her for the rest of her life, even though they were no longer related and even after she had married a second husband. Tek moved to live near them when she got older and eventually moved in with them when she was in her 80s.

By chance, her death happened just a few days before I had planned a visit home. I lived hours away by that time and I don't know if I would have driven home to attend the funeral, but I was happy it worked out that I could attend. My mom was helping the ex-daughter-in-law clear out some of Tek's things after her death, and the woman sent home with her a big bag of costume jewelry from one of Tek's many jewelry boxes.



We each picked a few pieces and wore them to Tek's funeral the next day, to honor her. The Tek Bracelet is one of the pieces I chose.

I wore it (and still wear it) often and it always brings complements. It goes with any outfit and adds a touch of class to even t-shirts and jeans. The bracelet is not a precious metal and appears to be stainless steel. It has no brand markings on it but is probably something like Sarah Coventry or Avon or something that would have been sold at the local department store. It has a spring hinge and is actually a little snug on me since I gained weight, though it still fits. It would probably fit as an armband on a skinny-armed person. I like the design so much I considered getting an armband tattoo of it at one point.

My mom saw how often I wore it and when she later found a yellow gold-toned equivalent at a garage sale, she bought it for me.

I like and wear both pieces, though I don't wear yellow gold jewelry very often.  And of course, the yellow gold-toned bracelet is not the Tek Bracelet, so it's less special.




Saturday, March 23, 2013

If You Come to Philadelphia ...

If you come to Philadelphia, I promise we'll have a great time!

Come now (or soon) if you want to have more of my time available during your visit.

Come after I get a job if you want us to have more spending money to go and do things. (Mr. 42 will likely still be available to meet your plane or pick you up at your hotel and take you around during the day).

I suggest an itinerary that includes a "First Friday" (i.e. the first Friday of a new month) as there are tons of fun and free or inexpensive things to do on those weekends:  Art crawl. Gallery walk. Bands. Drinks. Food.

Some awesome things are always free:  the Liberty Bell and Independence Park, for example. People-watching on South Street. The Edgar Allan Poe House. Elfreth's Alley. Reading Terminal. Love Park. Penn's Landing.

Penn's Landing, Sculpture

View of the Ben Franklin Bridge from Penn's Landing

South Street funkiness

Mosaics on South Street

Some other cool things don't cost much and are worth the small amount they do cost:  Philadelphia Art Museum (complete with Rocky statue); Philadelphia African American Museum (The Supremes exhibit is here through June); The Franklin Institute; The Constitution Center.

If you want to shop, we're within walking distance of H & M, Macy's, Lush, Sephora, Buffalo Trading, Marshall's, Ross, two malls, trendy little boutiques in Old City, big designer stores in Rittenhouse, funky head shops and bookstores and XXX-product stores on South Street. We'll ride the subway somewhere just to give you the experience, or maybe to visit destinations a little further away. If you want to do serious shopping, we can ride the train and bus to great big ol' King of Prussia Mall, but honestly, if we're going to ride trains and buses for 90 minutes (yes, it really takes that long to get there by train and bus), why don't we ride them to New York City instead?  Trains are $24 to $40 and get there in 1 hr 15 minutes, or the Yo! Bus is $12 and takes 2 hrs.

We know tons of great places to eat. Including vegetarian. Including cheesesteaks. Including cheap (we just found a fabulous Indian place today that sells their food for $4.95 a pound). Including places with cool decor and moderate pricing. Including fancy-pants restaurants and high dollar menus if that's your game.



We live around the corner from a great dive bar and five decent restaurants that cover five ethnic cuisines and every price point. We're also just 4-5 blocks from two really good restaurant/bar districts.

If you want to sing karaoke with me (or just watch me sing), there are fun places to go every night, esp. Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays and Saturdays. All are within walking distance.



You can stay with us if you don't mind a sofa (or an airbed if there are two of you coming) and don't mind one or two cats trying to sleep with you. If you want a hotel room, there are four within walking distance of us (big city prices, sorry) or we can Priceline and try to get a better deal, though it may be a little further away.  We don't mind walking or riding the subway to get to you, and cabs are plentiful and cheap here in Philly.

Who among you will be the first to visit us? Mr. 42 and I have placed our bets. Prove me wrong, or prove me right! Hope to see you soon!

Sunday, March 10, 2013

The Circle of Life

I have been haunted all weekend by some sad news I received on Friday--the deaths of two people.

First off: the father of my high school boyfriend passed away. He was a photographer by trade and was also the guy who took my senior pictures. I haven't been in touch with the ex-boyfriend or his family in more than 20 years, but it's always sad to hear about the death of someone you knew. He was 68--a little on the young side nowadays, but he lived a good full life: two marriages; children, step-children and grand-children; assorted careers and fulfilling work.

The second one is the one I can't get out of my head. I doubt if any of you who read this blog knew her so I'll go ahead and include her first name--Courtney--as well as pictures and some other sad details I found.

To begin, this is a senior pic of Courtney, from 1982 or 1983.


I don't think this picture fully shows how beautiful she was, but you can see here that she was a pretty girl with creamy golden skin and a great smile. Her family lived down the block from my family back in our hometown. She was six years older than me, and had a little sister who was a year younger than me. I first met her when I was six or seven, and she soon became a favorite babysitter of me and my sister. 

Courtney was the cool babysitter who would bring her record collection with her when she came, or would sit and listen to our 45's and K-tel records with us all night and compliment our taste in music: "Oh, Tom Petty. 'Don't Do Me Like That' is my favorite song right now." She had waist-length hair in that beautiful kinky/curly 70s style and wore glittery and gauzy flowing blouses with her jeans and clogs. She taught us how to make snow ice cream. If she brought her little sister along when she babysat (which she often did), we would hold beauty pageants and make Courtney and any of her friends or boys who sometimes visited  be the pageant's judges. I remember a particular pageant that resulted in a three-way tie, so Courtney made me, my sister and her sister have a "dance-off" to "Shake Your Groove Thing" by Peaches and Herb to decide the winner. (I think her little sister won that one.)

She once babysat us during a horrible storm (maybe even a tornado?) that knocked the power out in the whole town, felled trees and peeled paint off houses and shingles off rooftops. Somehow she kept three scared little girls calm and quiet in the dark until our parents could make it home hours later. One of her methods involved the telling of ghost stories and an edited-for-kids re-telling of the plot of the movie "Halloween."

There were hints of trouble even then. Courtney would smoke my parents cigarettes (or bring her own) when she babysat. She was probably 13 or 14 at the time. I seem to remember some alcohol, too, from her parents' liquor cabinet or beers from my parents fridge, but that may not be accurate. For a short time, she was having some trouble with some kids in high school, and Courtney's mom started sending the little sister to stay at my parents' house after school, until she could pick her up after work. Courtney left town shortly after graduation, and one evening, her mom came to see my dad (a lawyer at the time) because Courtney had been arrested and was in jail out in Denver, the first of what would be a string of troubles across her lifetime. She was sent to Valley Hope (a drug and alcohol recovery center) not long after that. I saw her for the last time a few years later, and she still looked like the Courtney I remembered.

Flash forward to this.



Yes, this is Courtney. This is her mugshot from an arrest last November, in which she is alleged to have stolen enough goods to constitute a Class 3 Felony in Nebraska (this was no small theft). Since this wasn't her first arrest, she was likely looking at some prison time and/or a big fine

This week, she died "in her home," according to the obituary. I don't know what happened for sure, but I'm guessing she either killed herself, or the lifelong drug and alcohol problem led to an early death.  

It's hard for me to reconcile the pretty young woman I remember (like the first picture) with the more recent photo and news of Courtney. I don't know what prompted her early downward spiral. When she was a young teen, her parents went through a messy divorce that was very hard on the kids, but I think her difficulties were happening before that. I can see from her obituary that she must have had some good times, too--she went to business school, had children and even grandchildren and worked for her father for a short time. 

Did I mention she was only 48?

RIP, Courtney.

Thursday, February 28, 2013

I Saw It in Philadelphia: A Pig at the Pizza Parlor



Yes, it's a pig in a baby carriage. 

Dogs are not uncommon inside Philadelphia restaurants and coffee shops.  Many of the coffee shops actually keep dog biscuits at the counter for their canine visistors. There was a dog inside my hairstylist's studio one day, and we even saw a big dog inside Macy's once (he was on his way out as he and his owner had been asked to leave). 

This is the first pig I have seen inside a commercial establishment anywhere.

You can't see it, but it was a twin stroller and there was a (human) baby in the front seat, too. The nice woman who had the child and pig said she was pig-sitting for a friend and wasn't sure what kind of pig he actually was. 

This handsome little guy was named Scrappy, and we encountered him in a pizza parlor on South Street. He was adorable, if a bit shy.

Needless to say, we chose a veggie pizza for lunch after our encounter with Scrappy.  



Thursday, February 21, 2013

Random Updates. Really Random.

The Stuff We Lost In the Move

One of our missing moving boxes from the move has been found, or some of it, anyway. It DOESN'T appear to be the box with the photos, but we're waiting for a little more info. If it's the clothes and shoes, we have already replaced 'em and don't have room to store much extra, so we probably won't worry about getting it back. From what we know so far, it's a partially-full box only, which means someone probably picked through it and took whatever they wanted already.

The Job Hunt

Still hunting for a job and trying not to panic. Still have a little time, too, before I have to panic, but not much. I didn't start job hunting until the end of October, due to the move trauma and needing some time to get settled, so I've only been at it four months, but still. Ugh. My daily routine nowadays consists of going through all the job boards and LinkedIn each day to see if anything good has been posted, then going through the career sites of my "target" companies and seeing if they have anything new, or if I can find any new target companies to add to the list. I usually find two or three worth bookmarking or applying for every day, but not always. I keep hearing about how you're supposed to network, all these ridiculous bullshit guerilla job search tactics you can try (sending a package with a coffee mug AND your resume to the recruiter, etc.) and I just cringe. That is so not me. I also think how annoyed I would be as a recruiter or HR professional if people did that. Granted, HR pro's usually have a different personality and goals than I do. Maybe they truly are not annoyed by those tactics somehow. Or maybe those tactics work if you're in some creative field like Advertising, or you're in an industry that thrives on entrepreneurs, like a tech start-up. The financial services and insurance industries are notoriously conservative in many regards and I suspect they are in this one, too. I'm adding Philly contacts to LinkedIn as I can find them, but without working, I honestly haven't met that many folks here yet. My handful of karaoke friends are it, pretty much, BUT ...

Friends

... Two friends I have known for awhile just moved to Philadelphia this week. Yes!  :-)  One is an old friend from Lincoln, and the other is this person's sweetheart, whom I met for the first time in 2011. And you know the old shampoo commercial from the 1970s:  "They told two friends, and they told two friends, and so on, and so on, and so on ...?"  Umm, no details I can share yet but something like that is possibly in the works.  If nothing else, it is nice to have a few more friends here.

Coding and Networking

And in other professional developments: I have thoroughly ramped up on my HTML skills and am taking a class this weekend to learn JavaScript. I hope to make some new contacts there and meet a few other cool folks here in Philly. The coding knowledge couldn't hurt, either. I'm sure I won't know enough after that to get hired as a website developer (though I already know enough to be able to maintain some corporation's blog or update their website), but what I'm hoping is I'll learn enough to decide if I am interested in a change in career direction, and have an aptitude for it, which could prompt future educational choices, too.  I live very close to an ITT tech school if I want to get a certificate in something technical, plus there are all the other great colleges here (Drexel, Temple, Penn, etc.) if I want to pursue a Master's in something.

Complacency and You

Which brings me to another important point for everyone, but especially my friends and readers who still work where I used to work: don't get complacent.

Part of why it's taking so long for me to find a job out here is due to the high unemployment rate.  Philly, at 10.1%, is higher than the national average of 7.8%, and much higher than Nebraska's 3.7%.

Part of it, too, I have to accept responsibility for because I let myself get comfy in a job that I thought I'd probably work at for the rest of my life, and that was the wrong thing to do. We've all seen the firings and layoffs as jobs move overseas and lines of business get dropped.  There is no guarantee you'll have a job there in the future, and you don't want to wait until you get laid off to start preparing for your next job.

I didn't put much emphasis on my own development the last few years there, and I know many of you also are not doing this. I am thankful I already have a college degree, and I can't emphasize this enough: if you didn't finish your degree yet, make plans to get back in school as soon as you can, especially since the company offers tuition reimbursement. If you find yourself without a job, you'll be competing against many other people who are also looking for a job but who also have at least a Bachelor's Degree, and guess who won't make the cut? These days, employers want a Bachelor's even for non-skilled positions like being a receptionist at a dentist's office, for pete's sake! Check out a few job postings if you don't believe me.

For those of you with a degree already: step it up in other ways. Get that resume dusted off and ready to go. Build your network on LinkedIn if you haven't already. Get trained as a Six Sigma Green Belt or Black Belt. Start sitting in on technical meetings and learning project management. Learn Access and Brio and SAP Business Objects and any other technology you can get your hands on. Learn another branch of the business (Life, Annuities, Variable, etc.). Take any opportunity  you can get to learn something new at the company's expense, or even your own if you can afford it. (Wanna learn some programming skills? I do recommend Code Academy to start and it's absolutely free. Learn some basic HTML and you can start adding web parts to that lovely SharePoint site we used!)

Cute Cat Photos

Okay, I'll get off my soapbox. Umm ... how about some animal cuteness to lighten the mood here? Girlcat and Boycat say hello!






Friday, February 8, 2013

A List: Concerts and Shows

I've been to a lot of concerts and shows in my lifetime. At least I think it's a lot. More than some of you but probably not as many as others.

I used to make concert attendance a priority, especially in college and into my early 20s. Living in Nebraska meant we didn't necessarily have the best pick of concerts to attend (especially in the small town where I grew up), so if the difference between seeing a concert or not meant hours of driving to Omaha, Denver, Chicago or Kansas City, plus the associated expenses of gas, food, and lodging. . . well, so be it.  

Sometimes when I look at this list I am happy to have put in the time and effort to have attended, and cherish the memories of the event and the friends who enjoyed it with me. Other times, I wish I had saved my money and done some real traveling, but what's done is done. 

To me, there is a difference between a "concert" and a "show" (these are strictly my definitions, and there is definitely room for cross-over):  


  • A "concert" takes place in a large venue designed primarily for events of this type and with a large seating or standing capacity: an arena, an events center, a theater, an amphitheater, a ballroom. 
  • A "show" has a much smaller audience and takes place at a bar, restaurant, coffee house or other space whose main source of income is something other than events.
  • Also, I haven't included shows from cover bands or bands with a local audience only. I do have a couple Omaha bands in the list, but those are bands that also have a national or international audience.  


The interesting thing about concerts and shows is that the same bands may play in both, possibly even on the same tour. Some may begin their career playing shows and end it playing concerts. If they're around long enough, they'll begin with shows, progress to concerts, and wrap things up playing shows again, mostly to loyal longtime fans. 

This list will probably grow over time as I know I'm not remembering every show and concert at this moment. Did we go to something together that I didn't include here? Drop me a comment and let me know. I seem to have a big gap in the late 1990s, although this was around the time we bought our house and maybe we were just too broke to go to any concerts or shows.

Concerts, in roughly chronological order (artists in red are artists I've seen multiple times):


  • Kenny Rogers and Dottie West, Nebraska State Fair, 1981?
  • Willie Nelson Beer and BBQ at Rosenblatt Stadium 1981?   (I can't remember which actually came first--Kenny or Willie.  They were within months of each other, to the extent that I can recall.)
  • Head East, Red Willow County Fair, 1983
  • Vixen, Red Willow County, 1984  (this was after their appearance in the film Hardbodies and before their popularity as a female metal band in the late 1980s) 
  • Robert Plant with Joan Jett, Omaha Civic Center, 1988
  • REM, Omaha Civic Center, 1989
  • The Sugarcubes, Public Image Ltd, New Order, at Red Rocks, 1989
  • Love and Rockets, The Pixies, The Cure, Fiddler's Green (Denver), 1989
  • The Pixies, Nebraska State Fair Ag Complex, 1989
  • Ministry with KMFDM, Peony Park Ballroom, 1990 
  • Jane's Addiction, Aksarben, 1991
  • Fugazi, UNL Student Union Ballroom, 1991
  • Jello Biafra (spoken word tour), Student Union Ballroom, 1992?
  • Two Nice Girls, Student Union Ballroom, 1992
  • Lollapalooza #2, 1992:  Fiddler's Green, Denver.  Main stage:  Red Hot Chili Peppers, Ministry, Ice Cube, Soundgarden, The Jesus and Mary Chain, Pearl Jam, Lush.  (Second stage acts, the only one of which I saw as the Jim Rose Circus Sideshow, also included such soon-to-be-famous folks as Cypress Hill, Stone Temple Pilots, Rage Against the Machine, Luscious Jackson, L7 and others.)
  •  Lollapalooza #3: 1993:  The World Amphitheater, Chicago.  Main Stage: Primus, Alice in Chains, Dinosaur Jr., Fishbone, Arrested Development, Front 242, Babes in Toyland, Rage Against the Machine (as above, there were some great second stage acts were there that I didn't see at all.  It was 105 degrees that day and we attended the show after a ten-hour drive, followed by just five hours of sleep.  It was one of the least happy concert experiences I've had.  Re: Alice in Chains, Layne Staley had just broken his leg a few days before the show and performed the entire set from his wheelchair.)  
  • Concrete Blonde, Peony Park, November(?) 1993
  • Nirvana with The Breeders and Shonen Knife, Aksarben, December 1993 (yes, just a few months before Kurt died.)  
  • Lollapalooza #4:  1994: Sandstone Amphitheater, KC. Main Stage:  Smashing Pumpkins, Beastie Boys, George Clinton and the P-Funk All Stars, The Breeders, A Tribe Called Quest, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, L7, Boredoms.  (As with the others, I saw none of the second stage acts at this show.) 
  • Diamanda Galas and John Paul Jones, Lied Center, 1994
  • Steely Dan, Sandstone Amphitheater, 1996
  • Marilyn Manson, Omaha Civic Auditorium, 1997
  • Tito Puente, Lied Center, 1998?
  • KC and the Sunshine Band, Rococo Theater, 2001
  • The Pixies, Pershing Auditorium, 2004
  • Joan Jett, Nebraska State Fair, 2004
  • Nine Inch Nails, Pershing Auditorium, 2006
  • Flaming Lips, Sonic Youth, Stir Cove, 2006
  • Neko Case, Sokol Hall, 2006
  • Andrew Bird and My Morning Jacket, Sokol Hal,l 2006
  • Bright Eyes, Omaha Memorial Park, 2006
  • M. Ward, Scottish Rites Hall, 2006
  • Placebo, Social Distortion, She Wants Revenge, some giant outdoor venue in KC, 2006
  • Andrew Bird, Sokol Hall, 2007
  • Feist, Omaha Memorial Park, 2007
  • Morrissey, Orpheum Theater, 2007
  • The Faint, Sokol Hall, 2007
  • Nick Cave, Ogden Theater, Denver, 2008
  • Ween, Stir Cove, 2008
  • Gogol Bordello, Sokol Hall, 2008
  • Chris Isaak, Stir Cove, 2008
  • Bonerama, January 2010, Holland Performing Arts Center
  • Heart, Stir Cove, 2010
  • David Gray, Orpheum Theater, 2011
  • Cage the Elephant, The Black Keys, Stir Cove, 2011
  • Flaming Lips, Stir Cove, 2011
  • Paul Simon, Century Link Center, 2011
  • Jack White, Omaha Music Hall, 2012
  • Bonnie Raitt, Orpheum Theater, 2012
  • John Waters (spoken word), The Trocadero, Philadelphia, PA, 2012
  • Peter Murphy, The Trocadero, 2013
  • Rickie Lee Jones, The Prince Music Theater, Philadelphia, 2014
  • Echo and the Bunnymen, Union Transfer, Philadelphia, 2016
  • Depeche Mode, Wells Fargo Center, Philadelphia, 2018

Shows, in roughly chronological order:

  • Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Ranch Bowl, September 1989
  • Camper Van Beethoven, The Ranch Bowl, October 1989
  • Matthew Sweet, The Ranch Bowl, February 1992
  • Sister Machine Gun, The Royal Grove, Lincoln, 1997
  • Candye Kane, Zoo Bar, 1998
  • Fear, Knickerbocker's, 2000
  • The Reverend Horton Heat, Zoo Bar, 2001
  • Mark Hummel, Zoo Bar, 2001
  • Concrete Blonde, Royal Grove, 2002
  • Henry Rollins (spoken word), Royal Grove, 2002
  • Jonathan Richman, Knickerbockers, 2005?
  • Dead Science and Carla Bozulich, Duffy's, 2006
  • David Vandervelde, The Slowdown, 2007
  • Gravy Train!!! and Ssion, Waiting Room, 2007
  • Dosh, The Slowdown, 2007
  • M. Ward, The Slowdown, 2008
  • Daniel Johnston, The Slowdown, 2008
  • Wolf Parade, The Slowdown, 2008
  • Vic Chesnutt and Jonathan Richman, Waiting Room, 2008?
  • Ssion,The Slowdown, 2008
  • Tokyo Police Club, The Slowdown, 2008
  • She Wants Revenge and Psychedelic Furs, Waiting Room, 2009
  • Calexico, The Slowdown, 2009
  • The English Beat, The Slowdown, 2010
  • Strand of Oaks, Boot and Saddle, 2017